It does not attempt to give a broad understanding of all violence in the home or community but instead offers a more precise explanation of the tactics men use to batter women.
We keep our focus on women’s experience because the battering of women by men continues to be a significant social problem Also from the Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs, the Equality Wheel was developed not to describe equality per se, but to describe the changes needed for men who batter to move from being abusive to non-violent partnership.
Helping a friend in an abusive situation can be scary if you don’t know what to do.
Even people who know how to help friends might forget in the moment. It has six pieces – all ways to help a friend who is in an abusive relationship.
Violent words and actions are tools an abusive partner uses to gain and maintain power and control over their partner.
The Power and Control Wheel represents the lived experience of women who live with a man who beats them.
Dating abuse is a pattern of abusive behaviors -- usually a series of abusive behaviors over a course of time -- used to exert power and control over a dating partner.
Every relationship is different, but the things that unhealthy and abusive relationships have in common are issues of power and control.
People often start to believe that they deserve what’s happening to them for different reasons. Duplicating this page for personal or group use is permissible.
Or sometimes friends don’t believe that it is abuse. Used with permission from: Pathways of Courage, Inc/Wo Men and Children’s Horizon’s of Kenosha, Wisconsin Safe Dates.